Thursday, September 04, 2008

I had a 4-hour stretch of sleep last night!! Woohoo...the longest since Dylan joined us. Not that he wasn't waking up for his feed, but D grabbed his bottle, his son, and headed down to the basement to catch an inevitable CSI rerun. I was just so exhausted that even if he had said he was going down to introduce Dylan to slasher porn movies, I would have just said have a great time and thanks ever so much. I think back fondly of those initial days with Sasha when I could nap when she did. Now, while Dylan naps I either have to be the Mummy doll when we play with her doll house, or the helpless panda bear needing to be rescued by her Ming-Ming (a duck with a lisp character in her new favourite cartoon, Wonder Pets). While it is awesome watching her so engrossed in her imaginary play, I cant help but think "Dylan, please grow up pronto so you can take over as panda bear". There really are no economies of scale when you have another child. A second child does not mean double the work (if only), think more along the lines of quadrupling it. Lets not even mention the upkeep of the house. It is said that when a second child comes into the picture, somethings gotta give. In our case, it is the garden and the attached home. Flowers...dead. Lunch/Dinner...pizza, sushi or cereal. Quality time with spouse..we can chat while I am pumping or while I am feeding. Things get back to some semblance of normality when Sasha goes to daycare, well, our new sense of normality. So grateful I am to J at Sasha's daycare that I sent her a thank you card for helping Sasha adjust so beautifully to Dylan's arrival, and for being there for us. I think it would be almost impossible for us to truly bond with Dylan with Sasha's needs to look after too.

Yesterday morning, after we dropped Sasha at daycare, we dragged Dylan along to the Central Courts where I had my final PR interview. Well, not really an interview but more of ID verification. So as of yesterday, I am officially a permanent resident here. In 3 years, or was it 2, I will be eligible to apply for citizenship. I am not sure this is the route I want to take but it will surely be a hell of alot easier to travel under the same passport.

6 comments:

Anonymous said...

eh. must print this. QUADRAPLING OF WORK bit is my most effective contraception.

Imagine that an dhave to return to work within 3 months as well. Jeez.

Oh. I have the same feeling about my Dutch passport (due next year). Not sure if I want to have one, but...may be it is nice if we all have the same nationality.

Anyways. still cant wait to see you, with or without sufficient sleep!

xxxNino nino nino

Anonymous said...

Yo babe, Doug can bring the kiddies to mine on the 22nd no problem. I will be home. If the weather is fine, we can take the kids to the farm in the forest next to our house etc.

Also, Sash could be dropped her to play with Milly any time on the 23rd and 25th if you want too. My au pair is really sweet and she used to take care of 4 kids ... so she is really capable (more than I am) to take care of children!

26th dinner chez nous is set! Chris will fly off to Taiwan the next day but surely, you guys can even crash here (we have an extra bedroom and also a baby travel cot!).

I am relaxed. But really excited to see you! FAB!

xxxxN

Anonymous said...

Oops I forgot to say, I can also pick Doug and kids up from the hotel on the 22nd. I have extra babysit etc etc. So no worries. I even have an extra pottie if you need to borrow one for the time you are here!

xxxN

Wondering Nomad said...

Thanks babe for offer of potty. I have to say though that all attempts to potty train have gone down the drain so to speak.

Wondering Nomad said...

Considering you only have one kid you sure have alot of gear...hahahaha. Thanks sweetie for the offer! I think on the 23 and 25th we will sort of hang out around the Hilton and maybe head to Utrecht while Doug sorts out his conference. But I am more than happy to take up offer of accomodation on 26th as just realised where this Hilton is ie near Utrecht...must have talk with Doug about how near Amersfoort is not Amsterdam.

Anonymous said...

Ok we still have Milla's baby chair and just because we have 2 cars, we have 2 car seats (for Milla)... You are right, too many already for one kid. Cant imagine what your house is like now! :-) ha ha.

Hey, Amersfoort is not too faraway from Ams but the traffic is horrendous so trains are the best bet. Utrecht is not far from here (in NL, nowhere is far enough right?) but it could be that Soestduinen is on the south rather than north of it. I have to check (Ik ben een allochton...)...

hey, a potty only cost €5 each, hence can afford to put one on each floor.... if it costs more than that, we would nt be able to afford it!

cant wait to see you.
xxxN
p.s You can crash on the 26th, no problem.